I want to thank everybody who came out for my home poker game last night. I had a great time running the game and am looking forward to doing it again :)
There was some talk during the game about what makes a "real" poker player. There is a certain way that a serious poker player plays his cards and handles himself at the table which makes his/her 'realness' obvious. There was also some talk about whether or not the size/stakes of a game makes a game "real" or not.
Here are my thoughts on what makes a real poker player.
1) A real poker player plays the same regardless of the stakes. Even if a poker player is playing in a small game way below his/her bankroll he will still take the time to think out every decision as if they were playing for higher stakes. We take the game seriously, the money is a necessary part of the game but it does not dictate how good we want to play.
2) A real poker player does not think to him/herself, "I'm gonna crush this game, these players have no chance against me because I am so good." A real poker player knows that on any given night luck will play more of a role in winning than skill. We also know that if we play long enough against unskilled players we will eventually crush them. It simply takes time to get into the long-run and the long-run is where real poker players thrive.
3) Real poker players handle his wins/loses pretty much the same. We do not excessively celebrate when we win a pot and we do not bitch and moan when we lose a pot. We do not celebrate when we win because we are being respectful to our opponent. Sure, you may have just won the biggest pot of your life but how do you think your opponent feels? Maybe they can barely afford the stakes you are playing and that money is important to them?
4) A real poker player has suffered at the poker table. If all you know about poker is how exciting and fun it is than sorry, you are not a real poker player. This game is a true human drama and like any good story will have a wide variety of ups and downs. Shit will happen to you in a poker game that will feel almost unexplainable, as if the poker gods hate you. It is a sad fact that you need to lose, and handle those loses properly, in order to be proven a real poker player.
5) Probably most important a real poker player studies the game off the table. We read every book available on the subject and talk about the game incessantly. We also are active on poker discussion forums. Discussion forums are even better than books because you can post hands and situations you find yourself in and see what other, more experienced players would of done in your shoes. I said last night, if you think the answer to "Do you know what 2+2 is?" = 4, you are not a real poker player.
2+2 Poker discussion forum -
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/2/general-poker-discussion/