10 traits of the modern Alpha Male

You are physically bigger and stronger than the majority of your peers.  Before civilization took over this was the only thing that mattered.  We still have shades of this in modern times as the majority of men considered alphas, namely athletes,  celebrities and successful businessmen, are almost always very physically fit and some variation of lean muscular.

 You only look down on somebody to help them up.  Alpha males are so confident in themselves that they waste very little time degrading other males.  Alpha males are not in the business of creating other Alphas but if you are a beta and are trying to manifiest Alpha tendencies other alphas will respect this.

You are educated in some formal manner beyond high school and most people consider you of above average intelligence.  You can speak in a clear and lucid manner to individuals or groups.  You are not afraid to stand in front of a large group and speak.

You have children or are planning to have children with your spouse.  If you are in a monogamous relationship with a female that has no interest in reproducing you are not an Alpha Male, you are a indentured servant to an Alpha female.  The length of your servitude will be decided  by your female spouse and will have very little to do with any decision making of your own.   A great alpha once told me, "women decide who gets sex since the beginning of time"

 You do not fight with your spouse or other males.  Fighting is a sign of insecurity.  If you fight frequently with your spouse you are insecure in the relationship.  You are insecure in the relationship because you believe you are in charge but are not, your girlfriend is your boss.  Unless you are a competitive martial artist fighting with other males is another  sign of personal insecurity.  My friends who are professional fighters never get into street-fights.

You can kick fucking ass.  You are either trained in some form of martial art or are one of those guys who grew up fighting and are naturally good at it.  Alpha males will avoid fighting in modern times because they know how much damage they can do to their opponent.   Alphas know that they  could end up with a lengthy jail sentence regardless of who is right or wrong in a modern day fist fight.    An alpha male can handle a guy giving him a hard time with his brain first and only use his fists as a last resort in self-defense.

You make a good amount of money.  If you are sweating your bills on the daily you are not Alpha because that is such an incredible energy suck.  You are giving away energy that would otherwise be used to move you forward and humbly dominate everything in the way of your success.

You do something for community.  Alpha males want success for the people around them and are willing to generously donate their time and energy to help the less fortunate.  What good is it to be an Alpha in a community that is not prospering?

You have a job that has high value to your community.  These jobs are somewhat limited which is why the bulk of the male population can never be Alpha and that is the way it should be. Alphas tend to have jobs that are skill based and can not easily be replaced.

You are not an asshole and most people enjoy your company.